|As we grow and evolve, so must our relationships. One of the issues I help clients with is releasing old unhelpful patterns that do not serve them so they can create more fulfilling mutually supportive relationships.|
When clients have this issue and I look at their energy fields, I commonly see a patch of black in their chest area, AKA their heart or 4th chakra. (Black is letting go of what no longer serves us and the heart chakra is our love and relationship center.)
Relationships are the foundation of our life. They form our bonds with our life partners and family, our friends, as well as our business associates and clients. Relationships truly create our life. It is vital that we have ones that honor and support who we truly are.
When we are on our life’s journey of personal growth, there will inevitably be moments where we have outgrown old patterns and ways of being. These old patterns can be reflected acutely in our relationships, both with ourselves and others. It’s essential to stay present to those parts that are wanting to be brought to light, healed, and released.
For example, in my own life, I was single for many years. I didn’t marry until I was 60 years old. I resisted marriage because the strong independent part of me got a lot of ego gratification from not “needing anyone.”
I finally came to see that part of me was afraid of feeling vulnerable, of letting myself be truly seen and supported. I saw that this was a part of me that needed to be healed stemming from my childhood. I now have a wonderfully mutually supportive relationship with my husband.
Are you happy with all your relationships? Or are there perhaps patterns you inherited from childhood that are getting in the way of having the love you deserve?
Relationships are a mirror. For this reason, they are a huge source of personal growth because we see in them parts of ourselves we would never be able to perceive on our own. They help show us our Light, as well as the shadow self within us that needs to be healed.
Think of a relationship in your life that you would like to be better. Does this relationship remind you of a pattern you might have picked up in your childhood that no longer serves you? How can you honor more of what your soul is really wanting and needed from this relationship? It could be love, emotional support, compassion, understanding, or something else. How can you bring more of that to both yourself and the relationship?
It is never selfish or wrong to be true to our own hearts. When we honor what we truly need on a heart level we automatically honor our relationships as well because we are allowing our authentic selves to be fully seen and received. In doing this, we give permission for the other to be fully seen and received as well.
Inherited patterns in relationships can exist deep in our emotional body. This is why working with and clearing the aura is so powerful in up-leveling our energy so we attract more mutually supportive fulfilling ones, as well as opening us to opportunities that we could never see before.
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|Hope to see you there!|